Since I can’t get my hands on Harry Potter’s invisibility cloak, I’ll have to settle for my own version to make it through harvest. Because on the second day, things aren’t going so well.
This is not the call a farm wife likes to get, “Come pick me up. My truck’s broke down.”
That call actually came last week, ironically on the heels of a dinner conversation about My Farmer’s truck. It is ten years old – to us – and has lived a good life serving our farm. I gently encouraged the purchase of a newer truck before harvest began, just in case this trusty vehicle decided to quit during crunch time.
Then I got the call.
Nope. I know what you’re thinking. I didn’t say it.
This week harvest began in earnest. The guys hit the soybean field midday on Monday and hit a minor snag when a belt broke on the combine. The delay didn’t last long, thankfully.
Tuesday morning, My Farmer started the semi at 5 a.m. Still curled up in bed, I mentally prepared myself because this was it . . . this was the beginning of harvest, the beginning of months of 5 a.m. to 10 p.m. days, meals to the field, stress and triumph, the single wives club.
Midway through my pep talk, I heard the semi sputter and peeking into the dim morning light saw the hood fall back.
Breakdown numero two.
My Farmer didn’t even come to the house, but sped out the drive . . . in his dad’s pick-up. His is still at the shop.
That’s when my cloak came out. It doesn’t make me invisible like Harry Potter’s magic cover, but it does give me strength.
See, I’m not the farm wife who runs equipment with My Farmer. I love him too much to work that closely with him. I am not the farm wife who handles the book work. Numbers, seriously, are not my thing. And while I jokingly classify myself as chef, chauffer and go-fer, I find during harvest in particular, those are the roles I play.
In addition to Pollyanna. Because on some harvest days a shot of positivity is necessary.
Mid-morning the call came. “Come pick me up.”
And I did, plastering a supportive smile on my face. On the drive from the semi repair shop to the seed corn field where a broken dump cart awaited, I cheerfully told My Farmer some cute kid stories which received no response. Plan B. Pat his hand and drive in silence. This was not a good day.
An hour later, the phone rang again. I was in the car with a lunch before I answered, “Yes dear. Be there in a minute.”
On the drive from the seed corn field where My Farmer had to take a cylinder out of a neighbor’s dump cart to put on our broken cart only to discover the cart was loaded too heavy thus needing the backhoe to unload the extra weight . . .
. . . deep breath . . .
. . . I nodded and groaned with empathy, pulling my positivity cloak tighter.
That night I hesitantly called My Farmer. He had been combining beans by himself all afternoon and hadn’t been back to dump a load for a few hours. I had a feeling . . .
“Is everything okay? Would you like dinner?” I squeaked.
The answer was short. “No. A belt broke.”
This is only day two. Wrap that cloak tight. This could be a long harvest.
patricia skovronski says
I think of my “farmer family” especially this time of year.I remember the days @ aunt Maryanns and uncle Rons.U. Ron always ha the boys working on some machine or another.And riding with Linda on the horse to take lunches out to them in the field.Doug even let me behind the wheel of one the tractors once.
sheila says
Ouch. When it rains it pours. Hope the rest is uneventful!!!
Katie Pinke (@katpinke) says
I love the visual I get with the cloak of positivity image. My husband needs that also right now in his business. I am going to use it mentally. Hang in there!
illinoisfarmgirl says
Thanks, Katie. My son loves Harry Potter and as he twirled around in his makeshift cloak, I couldn’t help but think, I need one of those for the not so great days during harvest.
Pat Thomas says
You have a hard life Farmers Wife….people take it for granted the ups and downs of your life. You hang in there girl. You’re a good wife and Mother!
illinoisfarmgirl says
Oh, it’s not that hard. : ) Amazingly, My Farmer was in decent spirits at day’s end and after a good day today, we seem to be on the upswing.
Rhoda says
I really enjoy your blog and the candid way you relate your farming experience. Farming is not all roses and it’s refreshing to hear how it really is. Keep up the good work! And I wish you a smooth and bountiful harvest!!
illinoisfarmgirl says
Thank you for the good wishes. Today was much better than yesterday. We’re on the upswing!
Deb Althaus says
Love the cloak!! I’m so glad I’m not the only one that feels this way! You said it perfectly! Happy Harvest!!
illinoisfarmgirl says
Thanks, Deb! On that particular day, I was searching for something to hang on to. Thankfully, everything has been running well since. Feels like we’ve hit our rhythm. Happy & safe harvest to you as well.